Nokho, abafowabo nodadewabo ngamzali munye abahlobene nhlobo, ngakho-ke ngeke kubhekwe njengento embi noma engcolile. Akumangazi ukuthi insizwa nentombazane endala, abangenabo abalingani abavamile bocansi futhi cishe nsuku zonke bendawonye, kungazelelwe bazizwe bekhangwa ezingeni locansi komunye nomunye. Uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi intombazane iyithandile (umfana ke akukho mbuzo), ngicabanga ukuthi bazoqhubeka nokwenza lolu hlobo lwento ngezikhathi ezithile.
Lapho indodakazi yami inezingxoxo ezigangile noyise, imkhuthaza ngazo zonke izindlela ukuba imfekethe, cishe akunakwenzeka ukugcina ngaphakathi kwemingcele yokufaneleka. Futhi umthembisa izithombo ezifuze ezikamama wakhe. Ngakho lapho ethatha induku yakhe emlonyeni wakhe, washeshe wavuma. Futhi ngokushesha wathululela i-cum yakhe phezu kwehlumela lakhe elimnandi. Cool indaba ephathwayo.